Alternative Dispute Resolution
May 8, 2025
Choosing a mediator: Why different skill sets matter
Judges and attorneys bring different but invaluable strengths as neutrals, helping parties understand litigation risks and settlement benefits, while navigating the emotional and financial complexities of dispute resolution.





When I left my private law practice
to begin working as a mediator, I was confident I had the experience, skills
and personality to excel in my new role. However, I had some concern about
joining a field dominated by retired judges. I had been a highly rated and
successful attorney, but this didn't allay some initial apprehensions about my
place in the ADR pecking order. Most of the panelists at my new firm were
retired judges. They had sat in pristine robes on the bench administering the
law, while I was getting dirty in the trenches representing clients. Would I be
able to achieve the level of respect and reverence as a neutral that judges are
inherently afforded?
As I began looking closely at the
mediation process, I realized that I needed to rethink my assumptions. Former
litigators, such as myself, bring a unique and often
critical perspective to the resolution of disputes. They can provide insights
and experience that have been gleaned from working on the front lines. Former
judges bring an understanding of the justice system into mediation and often
become superb deal makers, but attorneys have a unique perspective on how deals
get done.
Lawyers vs. judges
It's not a competition: Practicing
attorneys and sitting judges are both valuable pieces of the litigation
picture. Litigants need representation; they deserve strong advocates who will
put their interests first. Parties involved in legal disputes need to have
their stories heard; they deserve fair and impartial justice. Attorneys and
judges fulfill these two critical functions -- both help bring about resolution
of often complex and difficult legal matters.
But when litigants seek to resolve
their issues outside the courtroom, other functions may be even more important.
A litigator who vociferously argues his client's case in court without giving
any edge to the other side is to be praised. A former litigator who approaches
mediation with the same level of contentiousness will not serve his clients'
interests well.
A judge who evaluates and makes
thoughtful and firm judgments about the parties' positions will render
intelligent decisions from the bench. A former judge who harshly judges the
parties' positions in a mediation stands little chance of facilitating resolution.
The very skills that can make judges and lawyers exceptional in the courtroom
may undo their efforts to achieve closure in the mediation context.
Mediation skills
These fundamental differences are
why aspiring neutrals, both judges and practitioners, undergo special training
before taking on these new roles. They must unlearn some skills that helped
them achieve success in their former positions and learn new skills that will
help them succeed as mediators.
Former litigators must unlearn confrontation; former
judges must unlearn judgment. Successful mediation calls for open
communication, lack of judgment, and a willingness to work toward a mutually
satisfactory result. It requires mediators who understand both the law and the
dynamics of back-and-forth negotiations.
Judges know the law and the trial
process. As neutrals, they can help parties in a mediation understand how their
cases might play out in a courtroom before a jury. Practicing attorneys
generally represent either plaintiffs or defendants. As neutrals, they have
unique insight into that side's litigation experience and their settlement
drivers. They have intimate awareness of the challenges of preparing and trying
a case and the benefits of achieving a settlement, and they know the financial
and emotional costs associated with a drawn-out lawsuit. Neutrals can use this
insight to educate and persuade both sides to stop litigating.
Strategy may be key
A neutral must be open-minded and nonjudgmental. But in
the real world, there are many angles to consider when trying to resolve a
dispute. A former judge may approach mediation with the same evaluative mindset
that powered his or her judicial decision-making. This mediator can help
parties understand how the evidence will be interpreted and what juries will
do, which can be a huge benefit for parties who are vacillating between
settling or going to trial.
Former attorneys, in contrast, may
find it easier to be a facilitator rather than overly evaluative. If they
represented just one side over the course of their careers, they are likely to
make a concerted effort to be deliberately unbiased. They might also have more
substantive knowledge of applicable law, especially if they specialized in the
practice area that is the subject matter of the mediation.
In addition to having substantive
expertise, a mediator who was a practicing attorney may be more sensitive to
how each side in a dispute is evaluating their case and the risks/rewards of
continuing a lawsuit versus settling. He or she may know about hot-button
issues in particular types of cases and may be able to help each side
understand what might motivate the other side to change its position.
Retired attorneys are, at heart, dealmakers. They
have a keen understanding of the settlement landscape. Judges may understand
jury verdicts, but settlements are the work of litigators. They know the dollar
amounts for similar cases that have settled and can advise parties in mediation
based on this knowledge.
Conclusion
When choosing a mediator, there are many factors to
consider. The type of case, the personalities of the parties, and evidentiary
complexities may require the skills and knowledge of a retired judge.
But for many cases, an attorney's
tool kit can provide a strong foundation for resolving disputes. Attorneys who
litigated for clients were laser-focused on obtaining favorable pre-trial
resolutions. As mediators, they can use that experience to bring parties
together. Although many former judges also have settlement expertise derived
from cases that required judicial approval of settlement, retired attorneys
understand how those settlements were achieved - from start to finish.
Former litigators may have dirt
under their fingernails from duking matters out for their clients, but most
have seen and learned strategies and skills that can make a difference for
parties struggling to reach agreement during mediation. They understand legal
and practical issues facing litigants on both sides of the fence and can often
bring a valuable perspective to seemingly intractable settlement negotiations.
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